I just wanted to state somewhere that i know i disappear from here a lot, but i do go through and read comments, slowly but surely.

so if you get some random response from me after a month or two, thats why, comments from farther back than that i usually feel silly responding to.
Basically i want you to know that you are heard, and are very much appreciated.
certainly if i need a self esteem boost i come here.
I've been avoiding posting any photos of Brandy, my fiance, because i don't want her to get lumped in with the other girls I've been with. My favorite thing to photograph is love. clearly. But I've taken a photograph thats too beautiful and sweet not to post. and i know that you all get it. so I'm not going to avoid doing that anymore. Maybe I'll give up being a perfectionist about this site too. But one step at a time
